How to Give a Girl the Best Orgasm, 8 Tips

Romantic setting, dimmed lights, soft sheets. You want to make your lady reach the best peak in her life, and impress her. But as you’re in the moment, you stop and think, how do I do this? Well, today is your lucky day! We will try to teach you how to give a girl the best orgasm.

You are about to be presented with the best, most helpful advices from sex experts, with the help of which, you are guaranteed to leave your girl in shock from the satisfaction. First and foremost however, we must remind you that the most essential suggestion for you, is to remind you that you must only partake in safe, consensual intercourse!

8 Tips to Give Her the Best Orgasm

1. Find out what she likes

Discover what your lady enjoys by experimenting and trying out different things. When you learn exactly what brings her pleasure, use those techniques as your key instruments in making her climax. Remember to use not only your penis, but also your fingers, lips and tongue to bring her true joy.

2. Get her to relax

Relaxing a girl is exceptionally vital when attempting to make her come. Make sure she is comfortable by creating a pleasant environment. This may mean lighting some candles, or perhaps playing music that you both enjoy. The key thing to remember is that you will only be able to bring her an orgasm, if she is fully relaxed and comfortable.

3. Body language

While you are in the process of stimulating your woman (whether that be internally or externally), keep an eye on her reactions to your every move. Her facial expressions and body language are your guide to making her orgasm. Based on changes in her facial expressions, you may judge and make conclusions on what she enjoys and dislikes. As mentioned previously, when you note that you do something that your lady really takes pleasure in, keep that in mind as a major tool in making her orgasm.

4. Positions

Using various positions will allow you to bring her a couple of steps closer to orgasming, due to the fact that different positions give you access to distinct, essential spots on her vagina. Those being, her clitoris, G, and A spots. Stimulation of the three, earlier mentioned spots is drastically important, since the three are directly related to climaxing. To reach the G-spot, you may want to put your girl on her back and place a pillow under her pelvis.

Doing so, you will have direct access to the G-spot. In order to stimulate the A-spot, (also known as the anterior fornix), you would do the same as you did with the G-spot, but this time go a bit deeper. The anterior fornix, is said to help a woman get wetter, which is exactly what you want when working on making her orgasm.

5. Foreplay

Foreplay is extremely important in driving a woman to orgasming, as it gets her turned on and ready to come. Before penetrating her, invest some time in finger and tongue action. Start off by working your way up her thighs with kisses to truly give her butterflies and make her want more. As you’re getting closer and closer to her genitalia, make her wait and be patient before actually touching, kissing or licking the vagina itself. The anticipation you will build up by making her wait will really get her going and prepare her for the upcoming burst of pleasure you will be giving her.

6. Intensify the feeling

When you feel that your lady is coming close to climaxing, you may want to intensify her future orgasm by stopping what you are doing completely, and turning your attention to a totally different body part of hers.

For instance, if you are fingering her, or eating her out and you realize that the orgasm is near, stop all that you are doing, and end the physical contact you are making with her vagina. Instead, engage in stimulation of her breasts. While you are kissing, sucking and grasping her breasts, you will allow for the tension that has built up in her vagina to lessen.

When the pressure finally lightens, you would go back to doing what you were doing previously, and now you should be able to bring her to climaxing quicker than you did the first time, and make her come harder than she would originally. If you repeat this process enough, you will notice that each time you do this, it will take you less and less time to bringing her close to orgasming and with each new time, you will intensify her future orgasm.

7. External and internal stimulation

Stimulating a female both externally and internally is crucial, when trying to make her orgasm. This is in light of the fact that in order to make a woman climax, you must concentrate on the three of the following places: G spot, (located a couple of inches inside, on the front wall of the vagina) the A spot, (located on the back end of the clitoris, where the wall begins to curve up) and the clitoris.

To spice things up, you may want to use some sex toys, such as a vibrator, a butt plug, or possibly a dildo. Sex toys are a great help when stimulating a woman, because they allow for additional bright sensations, and help you move a bit closer to the desired satisfaction.

8. Different techniques

Using numerous techniques is a noteworthy way, if you are willing to bring your girl pleasure. Try out different speeds and movements to add contrast to the process. Undoubtedly, you could agree that when you constantly use the same movement (such as moving just in circles or just up and down) things tend to get quite a bit boring, and the movement becomes oversued. To avoid unnecessary monotonousness, treat your woman to different movements.

To give you an idea, if usually you just rub your fingers up and down while fingering, switch things up a little, and use the circular clockwise and counterclockwise techniques. To add on, if you usually go slowly throughout the entire process, try adding a little speed, and vice versa. This tip tends to work for many, as different speeds and techniques play a significant role when trying to reach an orgasm. 

Written by Gvibe